Monday, April 22, 2013

It gets better

When u sit and cry in your room and no one would hear you cry
When you feel your worthless
When you feel hopeless
When you feel d weight of the world is on you and it's going to crush you to death
When you feel alone your not, a greater power is looking over and watching over you
It gets better it may take time but it does.
Patience is just what you need its hard to be patient but u just have to be .
Do not let anything take your smile away.
If u see someone in pain sometimes all you need to do is to give them a hug and tell them it's going to be fine and it will xoxo♥

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Back of

Marriage is stressful enough to let ppl around u interfere in ur marriage .
Stand up for ur spouse when they are talked to like an un welcome guest in the house don't just sit like a fool be it ur mother or whoever, u have to put ur foot down don't let ppl around u ruin ur marriage or make ur marriage unhappy.
If u disrespect ur spouse ppl around u will disrespect them too
Ur marriage is just the two of any other person is a stranger and an un welcome lice in ur marriage kick them out and stand up for urself and stand  up for ur partner xoxo♥

Tuesday, April 9, 2013


Live in the present , Don't dwell in the past, dream of the future so u don't let life pass u by.
Be content show appreciation to your creator cause some things you think your nothing but someone somewhere really wants to be like you.
Show some love to someone around u , be kind and never think your better than anybody just because u maybe
Or whatever  cos God created us all differently xoxo♥♥

Thursday, April 4, 2013


People are often unreasonable, illogical and self centered forgive them anyway.
If your kind people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives be kind anyway.
If your successfully you will win some false friends and some true enemies succeed anyway .
If your are honest and frank people may cheat you be honest and frank anyway.
If you find serenity and happiness they may be jealous be happy anyway.
                                  Mother Theresa

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Journey as a mom

She asked me he has a son? I answered I know wat I want and she replied I hope u know what ur doing cos u may regret it , well guy's so far I haven't and never will by God's grace. Well I have a stepson and to be honest I never wanted a man with a child and a boy for that matter if u u know what I mean , but this charming man came my way and swept me off my feet and I was a mother just like that .
The first day I met my stepson he was d most handsome smooth talking little man ever he asked me to come join him eat cos he loves fried rice and I feel in love then and there I knew I wanted to be his mother.
How would I be a good mother to him and I asked God to give me d grace  and I was d best mother I can be and would countinue to be now am a mother of 2 lovely little men so my point.
Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump, don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have or could have had no one waits forever. Just open ur heart and stop making excuses xoxo♥

Tuesday, April 2, 2013


Things in life are going to change, It's not about the changes it's about how you react to these changes and understand things change for a reason and usually it's for the best

Monday, April 1, 2013

U are ur answer

I remember when I wanted to get married everybody had something to say and the said without thinking or how I felt, but I stood my ground and I made my choice. You have to know what u want  and who u want it with u can't change a man when u get married if he can't change when ur dating girl don't waste ur time move on. Girls marriage is forever dats what I believe but :-( if he hits you that's a no no no capital NO he hit u once he will do it again and tell u sorry, let him go to d gym and punch a boxing bag. So get out before u pass out.
Then to d over sabe women keep ur thinking to urself ur hubby is talking to a girl u get angry and u suspect every movement my sister na u go die and he will move over . I know some men that don't cheat but want to have a  good time like hanging out with his friends u have to let ur husband have his alone time and live life that's my advice let give or men some space and we women should have fun have true friends u can hang out with get out of d house do something fun. Don't get me wrong I don't encourage cheating but I love being free so why can't I let my husband be free. And remember every marriage has good and bad days u just have to work on urs and stop looking at others. Don't anything or anyone take ur smile away xoxo♡

Sorry u don't know them

U are who u are so don't let anyone change u . I have had my share of friends but d last one I had my God it was horrible . Before I go on my brother encouraged me to countinue blogging and I♥ him for that. So here we go not everybody u call ur friends are some are just looking for someone to talk about .I met this girl like a year ago and all she does is talk about ppl and I never felt comfortable with her she like to do (madam) ppl who just talk about others are just inferior u have to have confidence in ur self . A man , womanor child can't give u confidence she almost changed me but I just had to get her out of my life before I become another person, so be urself and neva let anyone change u xoxo